What is the meaning of redefining moment in life??
One that changes the course of life or one that gives a new dimension to live life or one that gives a new perspective to the beauty of life’s colorful uncertainties?
I am not good at defining these philosophical topics but yes I have my own notion of terming certain incidents as “redefining moments ”
By nature human is an emotional animal whose actions are driven most of the times by his heart rather than his mind.
And most of the times it’s the heart which beats his mind when certain decisions are taken.
Friendship is one of those decision or relationship you may say.
When it starts it doesn’t look for why, when, how .It just happens.
With passage of time it sees its share of strife and tribulations. Things are not rosy all the time. It brings with it, its share of joy, happiness, tears, heartbreak, fights etc. Sometimes it seems to be the end of the world when a friendship seems to be breaking.
But this is the ultimate beauty of this relationship that it stands against all the testing times, and deepens with each passing moment and challenges it faces.
I am firm believer that friendship supersedes any other relationship, even LOVE.
Lovers can be good friends but best friends are one notch higher than lovers (sorry I don’t want to offend the love birds, but it’s a bitter truth).
Coming to the point of redefining moment in life I would like to mention mine –>
Two friends since school days who had great feelings for each other and were great buddies somehow got separated & got lost as life moved on and priorities changed.
Their likes, dislikes, friends, ambition, career etc. all changed but one thing which never changed was their feelings for each other.
They were out of sight but never out of mind.
As destiny and fate had decided they met again after several years and it appeared as if it was just yesterday when they last met.
Isn’t it the beauty of true friendship?? But how did it happen?? How was that feeling overwhelming and bringing me on cloud nine??
It’s just because of MY friend. The piousness of the soul, the feelings and the respect we share for each other.
Though we went through lots of ups and downs, almost lost each other and I, even went to the extent of assumption that I lost my friend forever.
But then I saw miracle happening, Yes I call it “miracle” and I got my friend back.
I have started believing that there is some superpower- angel, God or something like that; but yes it seems to me that it exists.
Dear friend you were and will be always special to me. I am honored and blessed to have a friend like you in my life.
As we move ahead in our lives; wherever we may live and whatever we may do ,you will always hold a special place.
As you said “LIFE IS INDEED VERY BEAUTIFUL and it has to go on even if we don’t get what we wanted”, this removes so many clouds of guilt and pain which haunts our souls time and again.
Thanks for being my friend.
Cheers to our great friendship!!! God bless you 🙂
PS: Words can never convey the true feelings!!! Some things are better left unsaid and unexpressed.
loserreturns says
Shooo kewt 🙂 …Friendship is such a beautiful relation…i see every relationship with friendship tainted spectacles 🙂
mraax says
You reminded me of my friends at school..I really miss them. and yeah,the moments spent with the, those moments are redefining. Truly said, It Just happens….
invincible says
throughout the read i had a friend in my mind…and how true ur words fit on our status… we hardly meet, we hardly talk, no chats or email or even sms….and surprisingly it all started with a year long courtship of 7th std yet wenver v meet it never seems that it’d been very long since v last met…..
friendship is magical….
n there comes a difference in any-other-relationship and friendship…..
ravsworld says
@Lo”v”er boy
Freindship indeed adds colours to the otherwise colorless and listless lives..cheers to this relationship..
and yes there is a layer of friendship in each relationship
@Abhishek
Our friends and the time spent with them are the most valuable possesion for us … these are our life long memoirs ….
@ASV
This is the magic and real beauty of this relationship , and this can be the reason why it is so special.The feelings are as raw and fresh as ever..
Never bounded by time ;lovely, enjoyable making each moment so very special…and am glad to see all my friends share the same opinion a and have someone associated with
the same situation as mine about this very special feeling.