What is the meaning of redefining moment in life??
One that changes the course of life or one that gives a new dimension to live life or one that gives a new perspective to the beauty of life’s colorful uncertainties?
I am not good at defining these philosophical topics but yes I have my own notion of terming certain incidents as “redefining moments ”
By nature human is an emotional animal whose actions are driven most of the times by his heart rather than his mind.
And most of the times it’s the heart which beats his mind when certain decisions are taken.
Friendship is one of those decision or relationship you may say.
When it starts it doesn’t look for why, when, how .It just happens.
With passage of time it sees its share of strife and tribulations. Things are not rosy all the time. It brings with it, its share of joy, happiness, tears, heartbreak, fights etc. Sometimes it seems to be the end of the world when a friendship seems to be breaking.
But this is the ultimate beauty of this relationship that it stands against all the testing times, and deepens with each passing moment and challenges it faces.
I am firm believer that friendship supersedes any other relationship, even LOVE.
Lovers can be good friends but best friends are one notch higher than lovers (sorry I don’t want to offend the love birds, but it’s a bitter truth).
Coming to the point of redefining moment in life I would like to mention mine –>
Two friends since school days who had great feelings for each other and were great buddies somehow got separated & got lost as life moved on and priorities changed.
Their likes, dislikes, friends, ambition, career etc. all changed but one thing which never changed was their feelings for each other.
They were out of sight but never out of mind.
As destiny and fate had decided they met again after several years and it appeared as if it was just yesterday when they last met.
Isn’t it the beauty of true friendship?? But how did it happen?? How was that feeling overwhelming and bringing me on cloud nine??
It’s just because of MY friend. The piousness of the soul, the feelings and the respect we share for each other.
Though we went through lots of ups and downs, almost lost each other and I, even went to the extent of assumption that I lost my friend forever.
But then I saw miracle happening, Yes I call it “miracle” and I got my friend back.
I have started believing that there is some superpower- angel, God or something like that; but yes it seems to me that it exists.
Dear friend you were and will be always special to me. I am honored and blessed to have a friend like you in my life.
As we move ahead in our lives; wherever we may live and whatever we may do ,you will always hold a special place.
As you said “LIFE IS INDEED VERY BEAUTIFUL and it has to go on even if we don’t get what we wanted”, this removes so many clouds of guilt and pain which haunts our souls time and again.
Thanks for being my friend.
Cheers to our great friendship!!! God bless you 🙂
PS: Words can never convey the true feelings!!! Some things are better left unsaid and unexpressed.